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BLAMING FOR ACTIONS, FAULTS, MISFORTUNE etc

People often blame others for their own actions, faults, mistakes, or misfortune due to various psychological and social factors.  Here are a few reasons why this behavior occurs: 1. Defensive mechanism: Blaming others can be a way for individuals to protect their self-esteem and preserve a positive self-image. By attributing their actions or failures to external factors, they can avoid taking responsibility and facing potential feelings of guilt or shame. 2. Projection: Sometimes, individuals project their own shortcomings onto others. They may unconsciously attribute their own mistakes or faults to someone else in order to avoid acknowledging their own flaws or weaknesses. 3. Cognitive biases: Cognitive biases, such as the fundamental attribution error, can lead people to attribute their own negative actions or outcomes to external factors, while attributing similar actions or outcomes of others to their internal traits. This bias can distort perceptions and lead t...

BREAKING FREE FROM LIMITATION

Introduction There is a famous quote by Bruce Lee, "If you always put limits on everything you do, physical or anything else, it will spread into your work and into your life. There are no limits. There are only plateaus, and you must not stay there, you must go beyond them." This quote highlights the importance of pushing beyond our limits and not settling for mediocrity in any aspect of our lives. Limitations can be both physical and mental. We often impose limits on ourselves due to fear, self-doubt, lack of confidence, or past failures. These limitations can hold us back from achieving our full potential and living a fulfilling life. In this blog, we will explore how limiting beliefs can affect our work and personal life, and how we can break free from these limitations. The Effects of Limiting Beliefs on Work Limiting beliefs can affect our work in many ways. When we have a negative mindset, we are more likely to give up when faced with challenges, procrast...

CREATE YOUR OWN GREENER PASTURE

Introduction: I personally learned that, there's no greener pasture anywhere and everyone must have to create their own greener pasture. This is so because in life, we often find ourselves looking at the lives of others and feeling envious of their achievements, their success, their possessions, and their happiness. It is easy to fall into the trap of thinking that the grass is always greener on the other side. However, the truth is that there is no greener pasture anywhere. We all have the power to create our own greener pasture. In this digest, we will explore what it means to create our own greener pasture, the importance of taking responsibility for our own happiness and success, and some strategies for doing so. What does it mean to create our own greener pasture? Creating our own greener pasture means taking responsibility for our own happiness and success. It means recognizing that our circumstances, while they may be challenging, do not define us. Instead, we de...

THE PROCESS OF SUCCESS

Indroduction: "There's nothing I would achieve that would make me feel more successful. Nothing. Those who call me successful because of what they consider ACHIEVEMENT are wrong.  What makes me feel successful is the every day waking up, inability to sleep at night because I'm brainstorming on how to solve a problem, failed attempts and then the excitement of little victories. The process is where the vibe is... The cars, homes, followers, influence etc are EMPTY and vanishes - but the feeling of the HUNT, the sweat of pursuit, the Passion of the thrust and the craze of the race is the pleasure of success.  In the school of success, satisfaction doesn't come at orgasm, it cums with every thrust. Enjoy the ride - ignore the climax." ~ Dr. Charles Awuzie ~ Success is a word that has been thrown around so much that its meaning has become ambiguous. To many, it is defined by the accumulation of material possessions and social status. To others, it is abo...